
Foster care support worker Brigit Parks-Montgomery (right) with foster parent Nicolle Tate and
her adopted
daughter -- one of the many families she supports.
Foster parents could get a call at any time from an agency worker to
place a child in their homes. They may have children of all
ages coming in and out of their homes. They may not always get the recognition they deserve.
But, because of
Foster Care support workers, those foster parents do get the support
they need.
Brigitte
Parks-Montgomery, who has been a Foster Care support worker for
nearly two years, spends most of her mornings catching up on
paperwork related to her caseload. One such case included a child
who was placed over the weekend in one of her foster homes.
“We have 72 hours
from the time the child is placed to do a home visit,” she said one
afternoon earlier this year. “For the homes that currently have children in
them, we must conduct home visits at least once a month. A lot of
what we do is paperwork here at the office. We get e-mails from
workers looking for open foster homes. We get updates from foster
parents that we must enter into SACWIS (the Statewide Automated
Child Welfare Information System).
“We must complete
home studies to make sure the homes are safe for the children –- all
of that must be entered into SACWIS,” she continued. “We have to
make sure the foster parents are keeping up with their training.
Foster parents must get recertified every two years. We do their
midway reevaluation at one year. We have a lot going on all of the
time.”
Parks-Montgomery,
who is the mother of four biological children and 30-plus foster
children she’s taken in over the years, may have a lot going on each
day, but that doesn’t stop her from loving her job.
“In a sense, with
this job, I’m completing the circle,” she said. “My parents both
died of a drug overdose so I was raised by my grandparents. Then, at
16, I got pregnant, so I had to deal with that at a young age. I was
able to go to college and even obtained my master’s degree, but it
wasn’t easy.
“I decided to
become a foster parent 22 years ago,” Parks-Montgomery continued.
“Then I started at the agency three and a-half years ago as an
Ongoing worker, and now this position. With this job, I can see a
situation from everyone’s point of view –- the child, the biological
parent, the foster parent, the Ongoing worker. I love what I do
because I get to help people every day.”
During her first
home visit of the afternoon, Parks-Montgomery met with Nicolle
Tate, a foster mother who adopted a 2-year-old in
February and hopes to adopt another infant staying in her
home.
Parks-Montgomery
discussed the child with Tate, talking about medical issues, the car
seat the child is transferred in, if anyone else has been with the
child at the home or any other concerns that Tate might have
concerning the foster child.
“When we do
visits, we have to see the child, even if he or she is sleeping,”
Parks-Montgomery explained as she quietly peeked in on the sleeping
infant. “We just need to make sure they’re doing okay. Khamari, her
newly adopted daughter, was 1.6 pounds when she was born and brought
to Nicolle’s home. It’s amazing to see her as a thriving 2-year-old
now. Nicolle has done a great job with her.”
The visit to
Tate’s home was relatively short since neither the foster parent nor
the worker had any concerns towards the care of the infant. From
there, Parks-Montgomery headed to the home of a foster mother who
had taken in four teenage girls.
“She is strict,
but it’s good for the girls,” she said. “The girls like being with
her because she is consistent. A lot of them don’t have anything
stable in their lives, but when they’re with her, they’re stable,
for the most part.”
At the visit, she and the foster mother discussed what would happen with
the foster children when the mother had knee surgery.
“They probably
could stay with her since they’re older, but at least for the first
couple of weeks during her recovery, I’d rather place them in
another home,” Parks-Montgomery said. “Since I see the kids during
my visits, it becomes personal to me. I like to see that the kids
are doing good and succeeding in the home.”
But as
Parks-Montgomery said a few times during the day, you just never
know what will come up during a home visit. On this particular day,
she learned that one of the teenage girls was being taken out of the
home.
“She and one of
the other girls cussed out a teacher so they were suspended,” the
foster mother explained to Parks-Montgomery. “The one girl knew
she’d been in the wrong, but the other was rude to me as well so I
asked her to leave. Her Ongoing worker is on his way here to get her
stuff. I believe they’re taking her to a respite home.”
The teenager was
no longer at the home when Parks-Montgomery arrived. She had left
instead of waiting for her Ongoing worker to arrive. The girl did
return before Parks-Montgomery left the visit.
“You just never
know what to expect,” she said. “I think it’s definitely helped that
I was – still am actually – a foster parent,” she said. “I’ve been
there and understand what it’s like to be in their shoes. I think it
makes it easier for them to talk to me about certain things, too,
because they know I’ve been there. For the most part, I have a good
relationship with the foster parents on my caseload.
“Unfortunately,
I’ve had some parents tell me they just couldn’t do it anymore due
to the economy,” Parks-Montgomery continued, as she drove back to
222 E. Central Parkway before heading off to a 6 p.m. home visit. “Just like many
other families, they’ve been affected by the layoffs and just cannot
take in extra children right now. It’s hard because we have so many
children coming into the agency’s care and we’re losing some great
foster parents.”